Slightly Unhinged With Justin Pavis

In this episode of Slightly Unhinged, Justin sits down with Lily for a conversation about what it really means to build community in Portland and why the best business relationships are never just about business. As the show continues leaning into connection, chosen community, and uplifting the people who make this city feel alive, this episode lands right at the heart of that mission.
Justin and Lily talk about Portland Small Business Network, the difference between authentic networking and rooms full of people just trying to sell, and why referrals should come from real trust, not pressure. They also get into local restaurants, nightlife, hospitality, food culture, and the people and places that help shape Portland’s creative and community-driven spirit. It’s a conversation about showing up for your city, your people, and the small businesses that keep local culture alive.
Lily also shares more about her work with Accident Care Chiropractic, her family’s roots in Portland’s food and small business scene, and the relationship-first approach that defines everything she builds. And of course, Tofu makes an appearance, because some stars simply demand screen time.
This episode is fun, community-focused, and a strong reflection of what Slightly Unhinged is: a space where Justin brings listeners into conversations with people who are actively shaping Portland through connection, culture, and care.
In this episode:
Justin and Lily on what makes networking actually meaningful
why being a resource matters more than being pushy
Portland Small Business Network and how it grew
supporting downtown Portland and local restaurants
Lily’s work with Accident Care Chiropractic
family business, food culture, and community roots
nightlife, hospitality, and the local spots that shape Portland
referrals, relationships, and building trust that lasts
a rapid-fire round on cocktails, brunch, Tofu's fashion, and travel
an appearance by the iconic Tofu
About the guest
Growing up in NE Portland’s small business scene, Lily is passionate about helping local businesses thrive. She connects people, builds lasting relationships, and delivers strategic marketing that drives results. With a knack for spotting inefficiencies and a creative edge, she helps businesses grow smarter, faster, and stronger.
Connect with Lily
Portland Small Business Network: portlandsmallbusinessnetwork.comFacebook Group: Portland Small Biz on FacebookInstagram: @pdx.bizInstagram: @lily.portlandInstagram: @tinytofupdxLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/lilyjYouTube: @pdxsmallbizTikTok: @Lilypdx
Attend Lily’s events and send her referrals.
Mentioned in this episode
Accident Care Chiropracticwww.accidentcarechiropractic.com
Lily Markethttps://www.lily-market.com/
Portland Small Biz event locations mentioned
Buranko Cafe
Clark Lewis
Other Portland spots mentioned
Soho House Portland
Scotch Lodge
Hey Love
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Tofu’s Instagram: @tinytofupdx
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Instagram: @slightlyunhingedthepodcast
Wine for this episode
Thank you to Bouchon: A Wine Shop for providing the wine for this episode.Visit Bouchon: bouchonpdx.com
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In this episode of Slightly Unhinged, Justin sits down with Nicole Onoscopi, a Portland-based, Oregon-raised, New York City-cultivated drag queen known for her live vocals, high-energy brunches, bingos, and big-stage charisma. They get into Nicole’s journey from musical theater and off-Broadway life in New York to becoming one of Portland’s most beloved drag performers, and how drag became the place where all of her creativity, humor, and storytelling finally clicked.
They also talk about Nicole’s pandemic-era love story, supportive queer family, the evolution of her drag persona, and what it really takes to build a life and career in performance. Along the way, the conversation wanders into brunches, wigs, weddings, local drag, and the kind of family stories that could only happen in a beautifully queer cousin web.
This episode is funny, personal, heartfelt, and wildly entertaining, with plenty of laughs and a real love for performance, community, and being exactly who you are.
In this episode:
Nicole Onoscopi’s path from musical theater to drag
life in New York and the performances that shaped her
the pandemic detour that led to her love story and life in Oregon
how Nicole found her drag name and built her persona
why drag became the perfect outlet for performance and self-expression
what it means to have a supportive queer family
the work behind drag brunches, live vocals, bingos, and producing shows
how to support local drag by showing up for venues and buying tickets early
About the guest
Nicole Onoscopi is a Portland-based, Oregon-raised, New York City-cultivated drag queen known for her live vocals, high-energy brunches, and bingos. She has been featured as one of Cosmopolitan’s Cosmo Queens, performed in the Guinness World Record-holding longest drag show, appeared on the Trail Blazers halftime stage, and is part of the CC Slaughters nightclub family. She also hosts and produces Drag Brunch PDX at multiple venues in Portland.
Connect with Nicole Onoscopi
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicoleonoscopi
Drag Brunch PDX: https://www.instagram.com/dragbrunchpdx
CC Slaughters: https://www.instagram.com/slaughterspdx
 
Mentioned in this episode
KimChi Chic Beauty: https://kimchichicbeauty.com
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Support local drag
Want to support local drag in a real way? Nicole’s advice is simple: support the venues even when a show isn’t happening, spend intentionally, and buy tickets in advance. It helps venues plan, helps performers keep producing, and helps the local drag community keep thriving.
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Show Notes
In this episode of Slightly Unhinged, Justin sits down with Albert Tavarez for a conversation about community, financial literacy, identity, and what it means to build a career around helping people feel supported instead of overlooked. Originally from Miami and now eight years into life in Oregon, Albert shares how his work in banking connects with his passion for serving others, especially the Latino and LGBTQIA+ communities, and why creating safe, welcoming spaces matters just as much as the numbers.
They get into what people often misunderstand about banking, why small business owners need real human support behind their accounts, and how financial education can genuinely change lives. The conversation also moves into Albert’s journey from Miami to Oregon, the differences between the two cities, queer community, nightlife, chosen family, and the value of building spaces where people can feel seen, supported, and connected.
This episode is warm, funny, and genuinely useful, especially for anyone thinking more seriously about money, business relationships, community, and the kind of support system they want around them.
In this episode:
Albert Tavarez’s move from Miami to Oregon and how he found community here
why financial literacy and access to support matter so much
what separates relationship-based banking from feeling like just a number
how Albert advocates for the Latino and LGBTQIA+ communities through his work
the role nonprofits and community leadership play in his life
what small business owners and future buyers should be doing now to prepare financially
how networking feels different when it’s built around real community
Miami nightlife, Portland queer spaces, brunch culture, and a rapid-fire round that goes off the rails in the best way
About the guest
Albert Tavarez is originally from Miami, Florida, and moved to Oregon eight years ago. He loves Oregon, misses the sun, and is living his dream job by helping others, especially the Latino and LGBTQIA+ communities, through financial literacy and money management. He also has a passion for nonprofit work and serves on the Hillsboro Library Foundation board and as Treasurer for Pacific Northwest Power Partners.
Connect with Albert Tavarez
Visit Columbia Bank: Columbia Bank
Mentioned in this episode
Pacific Northwest Power Partners: @pnwpowerpartners
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Instagram: @slightlyunhingedthepodcast
Wine for this episode
Thank you to Bouchon: A Wine Shop for providing the wine for this episode.Visit Bouchon: Bouchon
Special shoutout
A special extra shoutout to Christine for making the connection to today’s guest.
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In this episode of Slightly Unhinged, Justin sits down with Kaylyn of Action Jackson Promotions for a candid conversation about content creation, confidence on camera, building a business by accident, and what it really looks like to work with your spouse while trying to build something meaningful.
This one is occasionally explicit, and full of the kind of real conversation that makes Slightly Unhinged what it is.
In this episode:
how Kaylyn and Joey accidentally built Action Jackson Promotions after starting in mortgages
what people are actually afraid of when they show up on camera
why prep matters so much in video and content creation
the tension between authenticity, professionalism, and public visibility
why community and referrals still matter more than chasing trends
what it’s really like to build a business with your spouse
whether social media is evolving, collapsing, or both
side quests into Herbalife, Pure Romance, MySpace drama, astrology, and Walla Walla wine weekends
About the guest
Kaylyn is the co-founder of Action Jackson Promotions, a production company known for helping brands show up with more intention, personality, and confidence on camera. In this episode, she joins Justin not just as the force behind the production of Slightly Unhinged, but as a guest with her own story and perspective.
Connect with Kaylyn
Instagram - @kaydawlWebsite: www.ActionJacksonPromos.com
Wine for this episode
Special thanks to Mandy and Bouchon: A Wine Shop for supplying the wine for this episode.https://bouchonpdx.com/
 
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In the first episode of Slightly Unhinged, Justin sits down with his friend Jessica for a candid conversation about housing, money, big life decisions, and all the chaos that comes with being an adult in strange times. From real estate war stories to wine-fueled tangents, this one is honest, funny, and just unhinged enough.
 
In this episode:
mortgages, affordability, and what buyers are up against right now
COVID-era real estate and the ripple effects that are still showing up now
why the right industry professionals can make or break the experience
wine, Walla Walla, and the side tangents that make Slightly Unhinged what it is
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About Jessica:
Jessica's 10 years' experience in the mortgage industry started when she realized that mortgage lending & customer service were mutually exclusive. Her differentiator is to provide exceptional service to her clients through education and constant communication. If you're looking for a lender partner that listens to your needs and delivers on follow-up, call Jessica!
Connect with Jessica:
Instagram - @jessicahomelender
Book a consult via Instagram link in bio
Website - https://www.cmghomeloans.com/mysite/jessica-scolastico
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessicahomelender/ 
 
Wine provided by Bouchon: A Wine Shop
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Slightly Unhinged is a podcast hosted by Justin Pavis featuring real conversations, honest opinions, unexpected tangents, and moments that are a little too real for most polished spaces. Funny sometimes, messy sometimes, thoughtful sometimes, and every now and then a little unhinged. If you like smart conversation, good chemistry, and a little chaos, you’re in the right place!